Will the mentality of the gang be our downfall?
13 07 2007
TMP regular, Yue Ting Cheng, explores the mentality of the “gang”.
Funny how everybody wants to be seen in the right “group”. Divisions exist in society at all levels. They begin at school, from those who wish to define themselves as being into a certain type of music/culture (mods, rockers, punks, soul boys etc), to people who support different football teams and, on a street level, gangs who operate in different “patches”.
In workplaces and organisations there are often dividing lines between factions - you’re either in, or not, and if you’re not, the writing may well be on the wall. I remember at school there were the “tough” and “cool” kids who smoked cigarettes around the oak tree at lunchtime and breaks. When we played football, after ability people would pick their mates. On day trips to the local theme park, the kids with no friends would probably be left behind and laughed and humiliated at whilst others indulged.
I have rarely felt the need to pick sides; as far as I’m concerned the “team” will often pick itself. I am weary of any group that resorts to threatening people verbally or physically for not being “compliant” with their views or wishes as it perpetuates both the gang mentality, and often shows a complete inability to build alliances or work with others.
Within party politics people give themselves or others various labels - “Lefty”, “Loyalist” “Moderate” “Right winger”. Whilst I would clearly define myself as “left”, I have come to that conclusion through rationalising and interpreting the world we live in, rather than by proximity to people who are of the “left”.
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